I don't understand slut shaming . Can someone explain it to me?

I hear that a lot. And I don't disagree that society can sometimes be harsh to women and that there has been a huge progress in the last century. But saying men and women are born blank slates and culture is responsible for every single difference we see between the sexes seems very wrong.

Some people say "Women want sex as much as men, but they are just too afraid to show it".

How is that possible?

Data shows that the main audience for porn are men. Saying "Culture has taught women to not to enjoy porn" makes as much sense to me as saying "Gay people exist because media promotes homosexuality".

See, it doesn't make any sense.

Culture isn't responsible for everything. Somethings are hardwired into us.