Looking for GOOD (pc) players / rant.

So I played this game on launch for a couple months then took a break, a good friend recently got into pc gaming again and bought BF3 so I'm slowly getting back into it. I have to state first and foremost I HATE VEHICLES. Now I know what youre saying "thats the essence of battlefield blah blah" but thats not my play style and it never will be. "Go back to mw3" no thanks thats a console game and plays like shit on pc (I got it on a steam sale). OK SO: heres my questions. Why are all the infantry only servers empty or 64 player conquest on karkand or something where I have to run a thousand miles to PTFO? And furthermore autobalance is the worst invention of all time! If I put in 20 minutes of solid effort in to winning and get swapped at the last 5 minutes to only get a lose. I dont care if people on the other team quit because they lost, let the round ride out and take my victory and shuffle the teams next round. I guess what I'm truly looking for is a good (possibly private?) server where its infantry only on smaller maps with objectives...I love the play of this game on infantry only its way better than mw3. At this point my only hope is CS:GO. So Im looking for 2 things, a good server as described, and a good squad. Me and my friend both play assault and the ideal squad makeup for me is Assaultx2, Engineer, Support. We really want a good support player. My Battlelog http://battlelog.battlefield.com/bf3/user/Tritty250/