Our first time at the club was a huge success! (38f/39m)

So after months of talk, we finally attended a swingers club for the first time on a Friday and Saturday night. Our plan was (if we were to even be so lucky as to find a couple) for no more than some soft swap the first night, and if it was a positive experience, up to a full swap the second night. We knew it would be difficult because my wife is almost exclusively attracted to women.

Anyway when we got there Friday night, my wife was almost immediately turning heads, and getting the attention of several ladies. Long story short we ended up connecting with a very experienced couple who had no problem playing with us noobies. We got a private room at the club and had an amazing time soft swapping with them.

That night the wife and I debriefed each other and talked about every aspect of our experience, and it was a very positive one overall. She also expressed that if we saw them again that she did not want to have sex with the man, because she was not attracted to him. Although he had a handsome face, dressed well, and was very charismatic, his body type did absolutely nothing for her. The only thing I said to that was that I'm with her on any decision she wants to make, but if we did see them again the hard part of getting to know a couple was already over.

By the time we made it to the club on Saturday she had come around to the idea of fucking that couple, all on her own. We found them again! So we were immediately comfortable with them, and my wife let the other wife know we were ready to go further if they were interested. Again we found the private room, and proceeded to have a very fun full swap/foursome, where my wife lost count of how many orgasms she had. The excitement and novelty of the experience was enough for her to let go of her hangups and fully enjoy herself. Unfortunately this may turn out to be a bigger hurdle in the future.

Again that night we talked about every bit of the encounter and laid out everything we liked and disliked. It was an overwhelming positive experience. We feel incredibly grateful to have found such an experienced and professional couple on our first try, and our self confidence is through the roof.

As for the positives, we were both able to check off so many different fantasies that weekend. It was incredibly hot to have my wife between 2 cocks, and hearing her lose her collective shit (shes very orgasmic). The sounds and images from those nights are forever burned in to my brain. We were both surprised how easy and natural it all felt, and the lack of jealousy seeing our partner enjoy another person.

Our complaints are very minor. The attractiveness disparity between most couples is pretty big, my wife will always have a hard time finding a man attractive enough to fool around with (not because she's picky, she just loves women so much more). Also, just because you're experienced in the field doesn't mean you're going to be very good in the bed. Some of the things they did was just straight up bad sex, we still had a blast of course, but we were left scratching our heads about some moments. And of course as everyone already knows, condoms fucking suck!

Since that weekend we've been fucking like rabbits, excited about our future potential opportunities. There already talks about cruises and resort trips. We know we likely won't be as lucky as we were for our first time, but we are so excited that we're now fully on board this next chapter in our relationship.