feeling really selfish for my love language

I've done multiple quizes on this and have recieved many diff answers to it but I'm starting to notice how important it is for me to recieve gifts.

Not massive or expensive, just things like flowers and sweets etc

I get gifts for Christmas and birthdays ofc its just I'd love to get gifts for getting a new job or even just snacks when I go over to my boyfriends house! But I feel so selfish for getting upset that I don't get these things, and a part of me doesn't even want to ask for these things because I feel asking for these things "ruins" the meaning behind it? I don't know

I feel really rubbish right now, I recently got a new job and no one has given me a well done surprise for it or anything and I keep replaying in my mind how I give gifts to people for new jobs and interviews but don't get it back.

I don't know what to do :(