Deeply cruel comments Colleen and Erik make about their kids that they will view later

I am really disgusted and heartbroken for her children that Colleen verbalized "we only wanted 2 kids" in her vlog where she takes the pregnancy test. If I was sitting there with 3 children, I would never in a million years be caught on camera saying "we only wanted 2 kids". I'd be heartbroken if I were her child watching that vlog later in life, feeling like I was the one who wasn't really wanted. She needs to learn how to STFU and not say everything she ever thinks. I sit there aghast at what she thinks is appropriate to say and put in front of a world audience.

Likewise, Erik's comments about disliking babies in their podcast are awful. They both have zero filter on what they say and while those may be their true feelings, they think it's a good idea to say those thoughts out loud. There is no concept that those children will watch these videos later.

Colleen and Erik are selfish to their core. This is about their emotions and how they need to say everything they say and feel at all times. There is no thought about how their words affect other people, how cruel their opinions are to people who are suffering with fertility, how tone deaf their comments are regarding their privilege. There is simply no thought about what they say at all and that, to me, indicates either (a) low intelligence in being able to anticipate the future (b) lack of empathy for understanding how their comments will hurt others or (c) plain old narcissism to think that everything they think should be said and documented for a world audience.