F4M - "Happy ending" massage parlor discussion!

Hi lovelies!

Today I am less interested in RPing than I am in talking with folks about our past experiences and stories. We can all use a little human interaction in these isolating times! While my sex life with my husband is most of the time quite ordinary, the highlights are definitely fun! I find it interesting to explore these things and talk to others with similar experiences or at least interesting questions.

Before I get into it, note that I am not interested in dick pics, sexting, or one-line responses to this prompt! Please send some interesting thoughts to help kick off a discussion!

Today's topic is professional "happy ending" massages. My husband used to get them occasionally; I will put a short story below introducing how it first happened!

I would be interested to hear from you and compare any thoughts+experiences you have had! Have you had one before? Do you go regularly? What is the transaction like and the experience after? What do you like about it? What do you wish was different? And so on.

You don't have to answer all of these questions. But if you have interesting ones of your own, and especially if you have experiences to share, I would be interested to hear from you!

Ideally this would be a pretty balanced exchange with you bringing either similar stories or ideas to write about and questions to ask. Hoping for a dynamic back and forth between us, not just to post completed stories with an occasional "go on..."

So, my husband and I had a fairly open relationship. Of course COVID has done a number on that. But, back in happier times for the world, we had been dating for a while. We had been casual at first and so weren't unfamiliar with the prospect of the other person sleeping around. But, we had gotten more serious with time.

It really got started again when we were separated and long distance for a while. My future husband was talking about all this energy and stress that was building up from cutting off our sex life. Saying he was going to get a massage to at least relax. And I somewhat jokingly was like "with a happy ending?" and he admitted he was super tempted but didn't think I would have been ok with it, and had decided not to.

I thought about it for a bit and realized I didn't feel jealous of that at all. It was so transactional and it wasn't like he was going to run off with a woman who had just taken $ to stroke him off as the Nth customer of the day. So, I encouraged him to do it if he needed that relaxing release. And quickly learned that it had been a big fantasy of his for quite some time!

It became only an occasional indulgence for him. Still, it has made for interesting conversation on here the few times I have talked about it!