Books/resources on ADHD + relationships?

Hi y’all- first of all, thx for a great sub. I’ve been lurking awhile and this is probably the most helpful of internet adhd groups (trust me I’m in a lot of them!)

Second, I’m having what seems to be a pretty typical problem here: communicating about my ADHD to my NT partner effectively and productively. A lot of walls have gone up on both sides. While of course I’ll talk to my therapist, I’m interested in any resources or books that have helped y’all in this type of situation.

Thank you in advance 🥰