What's something you see when you go to a man's house that makes you think, "wow, he really has his shit together"?

Posted Apr 1, 2022, 9:00 AM UTC

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finigianfabulous grandmother•

Clean bathroom.

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effingcharming•

True, but such a low standard all the same lol

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jyj_forever•

A trash can in the bathroom

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[deleted]•

There are people who don't have trashcans in their bathrooms?

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kattieface•

I was also going to say this. Such a small, simple thing but it makes a huge difference. Particularly for visitors who have periods, but also for all other types of bathroom detritus.

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empathy_for_a_day•

Good kitchen knives, a framed photo or piece of art, scented candles, matching bed linen, multiple grooming products and a toiletries kit for guests.

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Malforus•

So an Airbnb side hustle?

Seriously though that's 6 things.

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[deleted]•

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AshEliseB•

A clean, tidy house.

Edit: yeah the bar is kinda low.

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Imuik•

If his house actually has furniture and decor in it.

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Danny_Mc_71•

Well excuse me your majesty. You got something against having nothing but a TV set and a deck chair in the living room?

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DBGYoutube•

that's a man living his best life. If he has a lazy boy chair, instead, then he is a king.

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When I started dating my husband I was 21 and he was 25. I remember just being impressed that his apartment looked like an actual place where a human lives. It was clean, he had well organized bookshelves and an actual table to eat at. Low bar I know but I was used to dating art school boys who were “exciting” and “creative” but also “emotionally useless” and “borederline drug addicts”. So yeah, it was just nice to be with a normal person who had a normal job and a normal fucking apartment.

I feel like the bar raises as you get older but the basics I’d say are just a well organized place with all the things he needs and loves.

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weird-nephew-theo•

Food ingredients in the fridge (not pre-made meals or takeout) And a piece of art on the wall that isnt a poster or certificate.

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catastrophized•

Something hanging on the wall that’s not a Marvel poster.

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topping_r•

Cute cushions and blankets. Or a calendar/organiser on the wall.

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Shigeko_Kageyama•

Sheets on the bed.

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nuublarg•

As an underpaid cog in capitalism, I dont even have my own place...

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Annoying_Winter•

Good art

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drfuzzysama•

Usually a significant other who appears relatively happy and does not currently appear to be trying to give me a subtle distress signal

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Ryshoe8•

100% completion of divinity original sin 1 and 2

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TV in the kitchen. Not a huge one, but one so you can watch the news while you eat breakfast in the morning

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