27 [M4F] VA/ Anywhere - Looking for someone who isn't toxic

Good morning Reddit! I've spent most of my adult life either dating, or pursuing toxic women and it's really taken a toll on my mental health over the years. Now this isn't to say that I'm without my own problems, because I know I'm far from perfect, but I need a more healthy dynamic.

About me, I'm a gamer when I have time, I enjoy games such as The Elder Scrolls, Red Dead Redemption, Halo, Gears of War, etc. I'm also a very big fan of TTRPGs, mainly D&D which I DM for. My main music interests are metal and a variety of dubstep. I'm not a religious person, and prefer someone who is also not, but if someone can respect my beliefs then I'm okay with different beliefs.

I'm fairly in shape, I do a lot of lifting for my job and I'd prefer someone who isn't overly overweight. I think a little weight looks great on most women though, but I do have preferences. I'm 5'10" and have long dirty blonde hair and blue eyes, and I'm white if that matters. I prefer someone around my age, but being younger is fine too. I'm more than happy with just friends online, but if you're nearby that's even better!

Thank you for your time reading this, and I hope to hear from someone!