Too Many Choices (small rant)

I just can't seem to build up enough wealth to keep my fleet going, buy a colony, etc. I think I know the problem. I am taking on too much responsibility via quests/missions.

I am genuinely curious how you all start in the early game. Do you pick a certain kind of mission and build a fleet to focus on it? Do you pick up whatever is close enough to round-trip without running out of fuel?

I am having a hard time, even after reading many starting guides, getting very far into the game before I get stranded in space due to fuel, or losing my fleet due to fights.

I am looking forward to what you have to say.