Cultural diversity in the lifestyle

I had an intensely sexual and arousing experience which was educational and thrilling on so many levels. It compelled me to write this post because it made me realize that swinging exists in many cultures all around the world and has taken many forms to survive. People find ways to engage in it without really calling it "Swinging." I would like to know how many others have had similar experiences with couples from a totally different culture and belief system.

So my wife (42 F) and I (39 M) have been in the lifestyle since 2016. Then Covid happened and our activities stopped. I had to move to a different city and never really got back into the lifestyle till this weekend! Things were opening up so we decided to look around for swinger parties. We finally went to one and it was quite typical of swinger parties. Except there was one man who looked either Mexican or Middle Eastern. He was sitting ny himself observing in silence and not interacting much. I thought that single men were now allowed so I asked the host. I was told that he had a wife when he came here but she was not comfortable so she left just minutes before we came. I found that to be odd. My wife was dancing with another woman and they had their hands on each other while he watched.

So I went to get some drinks, came back and saw that my wife was talking to him. She introduced me to him and he said that you have a lovely wife. Would you like to meet mine? I said why not? He invited us for dinner and we left the party to meet with his wife who was waiting for him at a nearby steakhouse. He called her and said I am bringing some guests that you would be happy to meet.

What totally blew my mind was that his wife was a Muslim who wore a headscarf. As the conversation progressed, it turned out that he was a doctor and his wife was a university professor. We connected so well. She explained that when they got married, she was a bisexual in a country where that would actually be illegal. She had explored her bisexuality with her maid who was very pretty. When she told her husband that she was a bisexual he hired that maid so that his wife could be with the woman she missed. They kept everything hush hush until they moved to the US. They were now looking for a couple that they could have a "shared marriage."

As a doctor, he was concerned about exposure to STDs and said that they were looking to hook up with a couple on long term. This was very much in line with our own priorities too because after experiencing with a few couples previously we had settled on one that we would meet up with. The rest just drifted out of the picture. I suggested that we should try to meet up and see if this experience would be something all of us would want for a long term? They agreed. I asked about boundaries and anything they would not like. He said we should let the women make that call. His wife told my wife that

It turned out that we lived pretty close to each other and they hosted us at their place. I saw his wife without her Islamic attire for the first time and DUDE under those clothes she was something else. She kissed my wife so passionately that my cock was hard! Then the women took each others clothes off and for the first time in my life I saw a woman dominate and I mean passionately dominate my woman in front of me. It was great to see two female bodies move with that kind of passion.

Her husband and I kept stroking our manhoods while she gave my wife her first orgasm. After that I asked her husband if I may have my way with his wife? All I remember beyond that is a night of wild sexual frenzy with two beautiful women and two horny husbands taking each others womens to the limits of their pleasures. It was amazing.

I have them on facebook and looking at them you would never think that they would be in the lifetyle. I was just fascinated to see how people have kept the spark in cultures that would have no and I mean no tolerance for it.

Has someone else made friends from other parts of the world?