As a non sex haver when I think about sex it’s weird and makes me sort of uncomfortable and I don’t know why.
Hello I’m 19M I’m a virgin never been on a date. Now I don’t think I’m ace or anything because I watch a lot of porn and am usually really horny. HOWEVER when I have the clarity of mind to reeeeeaaaallllyyyy think about it dating and sex are both an enigma to me.
So dating right you’re just supposed to me a total stranger and then hangout, again someone you barely know. Then when you get comfortable enough you get naked and do the thing with the thing??? When my friends and people I know describe it to me it feels weird. Like I get uncomfortable at the thought of someone looking or touching me naked. I don’t even think I’m super bad looking either physically I have a nice body my face could definitely be better but I could alway just wear a mask. Like my friends were telling each other about how they prefer to have sex with their girlfriends and it’s fucking weird man. Like I said I watch a lot of porn though since I was 10 in fact but when I’m not horny it just seems weird. I feel like it gets in the way of me dating because when I am attracted to someone I instantly think of sex and everything mentioned above.
Posted May 4, 2022, 1:57 AM UTC