[F4M] Seeking a Non-Misogynist Soft Dom to Adore. Let Me Be Your Good Girl.

Hi DPP!

I'm looking for a Dom who wants to focus more on passion, pleasure and the psychological aspects of Dominance and Submission over being cruel and brutal with their sub. If you want to make a sub afraid or break/ruin/harm them, I'm not the sub for you. I love a little bit of an age gap, but I do not want any pedophilic undertones. Everyone will be 21+, just to make that clear. I just want to share those non-negotiables up front to save us all time and help us get the the partners we're seeking!

If, however, the idea of a woman wanting to submit turns you on, the idea of big, nervous eyes eager to listen to your words because you have earned her trust makes you throb, her words coming to you in worshipful tones until you feel Godly in the power and control you've been given by her sends chills down your spine, please consider my post.

I love the sensation of being sexually embarrassed. Not humiliated, there's a difference and nuance is everything in good D/s play, but that feeling of knowing I'm being naughty for someone in ways I normally wouldn't. That blush that comes when a dark whispered request sends shivers down my spine, when a hand finds my body and I'm somewhere I have to control my face, when I get a little needy and work to catch his attention in rather undignified ways. Those moments even alone where he makes sure I know that what I'm doing will please him, even if it's not quite ladylike to do so. That's one of the themes I'm hoping to find from this post.

I like to write 3+ paragraphs at a time in first person. I have a life so my response times vary and I prefer a more relaxed reply timeline. I enjoy OOC chatter but I won't be sharing my personal information, please don't ask for my insta, I'm here to write with you only. I have some ideas below, but I'm definitely open to any you might have if they fit my kinks and limits! The tone of these should be romantic, passionate and sexy.

Some ideas I've considered:

1. Best Friend's Older Brother: You just bought a house because a mortgage is somehow less than rent these days and you've been thinking of getting a roommate. I just finished my degree and found a job in your city but I am having an impossible time finding a place within my budget. You, my dashing hero, have just the solution for us both. We haven't seen one another in at least five years and when I show up on your doorstep you're shocked by the woman I've grown into. Pleasant surprises all around.

2. Summoning my Incubus: I'm playing with a spell book I found at a thrift shop when it actually works. You are pulled forth from the infernal underworld and given refuge in the human realm. We are linked for as long as you exist on this plane. This one could involve some very fun sex magic as well.

3. The Virgin: I was raised in a very conservative home and in College I was so focused on my 4.0 grades that I didn't let myself live life at all. Now my friends are all elbow deep in relationships and I still haven't done more than make out a little with a guy. It's a hurdle I'm not sure how to cross. When do you tell someone you're a virgin? A first date seems too soon but waiting until their hand is up my shirt seems too late. When we meet, can you tell I'm a virgin and patiently coax it out of me? Do you toy with me a little? See how red you can make my cheeks?

Sexy activities I enjoy:

• The vanilla aspects of romance such as affection, body appreciation, cuddles, sweet talk, etc.

• Acts of service such as cooking, cleaning and generally caretaking a Dom.

• Teasing, edging, forced orgasms, orgasm control.

• Body worship in long, detailed descriptions of exactly what my lips, tongue and fingertips plan to do to adore you.

• Outercourse/Thigh riding/Grinding/Foreplay

• CMNF and ENF.

• Hold the moan/semi-public.

• Unique/difficult positions.

• Bondage/toys/apparatuses.

• Intimate dirty talk both ways including praise, compliments, dirty plans, L-bombs, commands, worship.

• Clothing (both characters), lingerie (my character) and detailed undressing scenes.

• Pleasing a Dom with my outfits, teasing him with them as well.

• Primal/passionate (includes rough play, biting/throat grabbing/growling/spanking, clothed sex, etc).

• Sensation play (light or heavy: blindfolds, headphones, icecubes, feathers, pinwheels, hot wax, clamps, etc).

• Impact play as part of pleasure scenes.

• Signs of ownership (discreet collars, tattoos, bite marks, etc).

• Mild DD/LG or Mild Pet Play.

• Cum play (all forms that aren't surreal).

• Wet/water/oils in sexual contexts.

• MFM scenes.

I'm sure there are plenty more, too. Please don't hesitate to share yours if it isn't on either list.

My limits, however, are non-negotiable: CNC/rape, aggression, abuse, degradation, multiple women, misogyny, being disrespectful to a sub, actually father/daughter, scat, animals, excessive blood.