Finally lost my virginity, no longer an incel

I’m 21 and lost my virginity last night. I spent a lot of time and money trying to improve my looks and it finally paid off.

The story is nothing special. Matched with a girl on Tinder, exchanged a few messages, agreed to meet up, went over to her apartment, had sex, left. The sex was pretty bad as you’d expect. It was quite awkward, especially cuz I never told her I was a virgin and she seemed to have way more experience. Idrc though because no longer having the title “incel” and “virgin” weighing down on me feels so relieving it’s crazy. My mental health and confidence have taken a huge boost. It didn’t even feel real this morning, I had to check my banking app to see the payment at the gas station when I bought condoms to make sure it wasn’t just a dream.