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Ok_Entertainer_9967

Anyone else not feeling guilt/remorse/regret ever?

Seeking Support

Main information is in the title. I did google it but I would rather hear from people who actually experience BPD than read something from random people. Also bpd possibly runs in my family but never officially diagnosed. My mother suspects I have it. Personally when I was maybe 10 or 12 years old I realized I didn't feel guilt or regret for anything I did. I wasn't such a perfect child but also not a PoS. Maybe in the middle. I have never talked about this before with anyone, not even with the therapists I saw later in my life. I might bring this issue up though because I don't think she has a realistic image of me. The only time I can recall feeling regret is when my ex found out I cheated on him. I later realized I was more upset that he found out rather than about what I did. I also didn't like how it damaged my reputation a bit but whatever. On the other hand you would not expect a cheater to feel sorry right? Even though I apologized to him, asked him to take me back and cried, I did not regret what I did at all. In fact I enjoyed it when it lasted. Anyway I hope this was enough typing to get my post accepted. Please don't attack me for grammar and spelling mistakes. English is not my first language. If I come across as rude, that's not my intention at all. Thanks for reading this if you did. :)

Posted May 17, 2022, 9:43 PM UTC

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