Wrecked my V-rod Muscle - need advice

I wont go into details because I am still going through insurance stuff but a car ran a stop sign right in front of me, I slammed on the brakes but it was to late i hit right behind the rear tire and i was thrown from the bike passed the car (luckily) and onto the pavement.

How well do the from forks hold up in a crash? They seem to be normal but I can't tell they could be pushed back an inch an I wouldn't be able to know. The bike is also has damage virtually everywhere, front fender is crushed, handlebars, mirrors, grips, headlight, exhaust, and the tank (air box cover on a V-rod) are all damaged. What is considered totaled? I honestly don't trust the bike if they only replace the parts and expect me to drive it. Any advice or similar stories?