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Complicated Feelings

I've had a crush on this girl for over a year now. I can't stop thinking about her, but the problem is she lives three hours away from me. We talk almost every day and we understand each other.

So a few weeks ago, I gathered the courage to talk to her about my feelings for her. Turns out that she has feelings for me as well, but she's not really into the idea of a relationship. I told her that I understand since we'll be leaving for college soon in seperate states, and it wouldn't be a logical choice to start a long-distance relationship being so far apart. So my problem isn't necessarily a 'relationship problem', but a problem with my own feelings. I can't stop thinking about her....any time I get to have a conversation with her makes me happier than anything, we understand each other more than anyone else, and we're perfect for each other.....but we can't be together.

Should I pursue this, or should I move on? If I need to move on, how can I drop my feelings for her?

Posted Jun 24, 2012, 2:35 AM UTC

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