Should I tell him today?

I've been hanging out with a guy for like 5 months, we've been intimate once but that was four months ago and ever since then he hasn't tried anything but has shown multiple signs he is interested in me. I'm tired of waiting and just feel like I'm being friend zoned when I'm really making an effort. I want to tell him something along the lines of, " I like you and I'm trying and making an effort but I just feel like I'm being friend zoned, and honestly I don't blame you if you only want to be my friend and love having you as a friend, but I just can't handle being hurt right now so I might be distant for a while. I'll rather be honest with you than be a bitch and just stop talking to you out of nowhere." What do you guys think? Should I tell him that? By the way, I know r/relationships would be a better subreddit for this but I don't care if I get downvoted I just want some quick answers and r/relationships takes forever.

PS: I'm moving in a month, so either way we're not getting serious but I hate being like this.

Posted Jun 24, 2012, 3:07 AM UTC

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