I heard women like to buy audio porn, is this good for getting dirty talk ideas to use on my wife and where to get the good stuff?

Like seriously, I need some help here - I tried some the other night and my wife splooshed all over my lap within a minute, so I know she likes it, but damn do I find it cringe a.f.

I want some tips here, preferably examples where I can desensitize myself to the feeling of absolute butt puckering embarrassment.