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[18m & 18f] one month relationship but really serious I need help please

I met her a month ago. Last night was our one month anniversary. Her parents are really strict so she had to sneak out. Her friends mom saw us in downtown and called her parents. Her parents flipped out and shes now grounded for the rest of the year and forbidden to see me.

We both love each other so much. Im a guy and I havent cried since I was like 8 and im almost balling my eyes out here because shes telling me we have to break up. She still loves me and I love her but were both going to different colleges soon anyway...

Ive had relationships before but Ive never been this serious about a girl. I really wanted to spend the remainder of summer with her and try to continue dating in college.

Shes stuck on the fact that we have to break up because she says she cant continue to date me knowing that we have to break up soon, and that her parents wont let her so itll be hard to see me.

Im trying to tell her to stay with me, it doesnt matter if I dont see her for awhile and her parents will probably cool down over the next few days.

I know this sounds so ridiculous since were both so young and have only dated a month but this is that first really really hard breakup for both of us if we have to do it...

Posted Jul 10, 2012, 4:28 AM UTC

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