Is it to much to ask for an open minded and understanding gf?

Ever since I found out that I was bisexual (few years ago) I have struggled with the women in my life accepting that part of who I am. In my relationship I have juggled around the whole "should I tell her... Should I not"... The few that I did open up to took it three different ways.

1. Ewwww! I can't believe that you are into guys too! Are you gay? I would have never guessed... You are so manly... That's just wrong.

2. Well I understand that you like guys, but I'm not into that. So I don't want it to ever come up, or us ever to discuss it again

3. And the one crazy girl that was actually into it. Tried to trap me in a relationship by faking a pregnancy lol.... Ya that turned out well...

Anyways long story short. I want a girl that wants a relationship. Someone that is open indeed and accepting of the fact that I'm bisexual. Love toys and want to have a kinky and exciting sex life. Is that too much to ask for someone that can love me for who I am and to share my life with?