My best friend has a dilemma, please tell me how I can help!!!!

"I came forward to you today and told you I was a non believer. You smacked me across the face saying that I was going to hell and how you couldn't believe you let me inside of you. You said that I will always be desperate and alone because of my ways. I have always dreamed of the day I have a family. You made me cry because I believe you when you say that I'll never have one or belong to anyone. You really made me feel like this is my punishment for not believing in God. Maybe it really is and I'm a fool for disregarding him in my life because I wouldn't be going through this with you if I did believe. You said if I change my ways and accept Jesus Christ as my Lord and Saviour that you we could get back together and maybe even take things farther. I dream of the day I become a father, even if it is to someone else's kids, and you make me feel like this is my only chance to make it happen. The only other girl, I would marry in a heartbeat, is already taken with three beautiful children. I hate you so much because you want me to abandon my beliefs for yours and yet I love you so much because you might give me what I have always wanted."