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Mandood

So I guess this is it.

So I posted a little while ago about the situation I was in with a recent break up. She said she wanted to be with me but right now she needs space and felt like I was smothering her. I stopped contacting her. She has texted me a few times about random things in which I gave a short response and I have texted her one about random things in which she had just said "yep" and that was all we have spoken.

I guess the point is that I don't know if I should take it at face value that she just needs more space because she we don't even talk anymore. I've gotten to the point where I am done waiting and I'm just not sure if I should say something to her about it or just let it go and prepare myself to never talk to her again. I feel like we are at a standoff, neither one willing to put themselves out there and initiate an actual conversation. She just random things that let me know she is thinking about me but nothing substantial. For all I know this is just what she needs right now and eventually things will get better.

I'm ready to just call it and try to move on but I'm not sure if I should say anything to her or just do it. I guess nothing would really change since neither of us are contacting each other but idk what is the right move I guess. Maybe I shouldn't give her a chance to reel me back in.

Posted Jul 10, 2012, 6:58 AM UTC

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