How masculine do you want your "bromo" friends to be?

So, I consider myself a gaybro, not because I'm particularly masculine, but because I'm a bro first, and a gay man second. I am a bit feminine, but to be honest, I don't see it as being a definitive part of my nature. I don't know how to describe it, but that's just the way it is. My frat brothers all know me as a bro first, then as a gay man. Even my gay friends think of me as a friend/bro first. I don't mind it at all (in fact, it's kind of nice not to have to worry about being in a weird hookup limbo with people I'm close to!)

That being said, if you have a gay friend or a circle of gay friends, how masculine do you want them to be? I know that my balance of masc/fem works for my friends... what balance works for you?

(also I'm incredibly trashed. And I'm the "perpetual alcoholic" of my friends. why it matters, i have no clue.)