Would-be due date upcoming
And I’m not sure how to feel. Next week I think would have been my due date, as I fell pregnant in November. A lot has changed in my life since my MA in December - mainly that the would-be father isn’t really in my life anymore. I’m fine with that because whatever semblance of a relationship was barely anything even before the MA, and completely ended when it happened.
I’ve also started seeing someone recently, and the thoughts of having sex is giving me anxiety because of the risk of this happening again. I haven’t had sex since the night of conception so it’s obviously been a while.
But yeah, I’m obviously not regretting the MA and am very thankful I had the resources to be able to do it in my own home. But with the due date coming, I’m just allowing myself to be mindful about it all.
Posted Aug 5, 2022, 6:50 PM UTC
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