Shaeeda spills food on her clothes and says “This isn’t my fault, right?” Imagine instantly asking your partner’s verdict(!) on an accident involving YOUR OWN clothes🤯

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Posted Aug 20, 2022, 10:53 PM UTC

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Princessss88•

That just makes me sad.

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Dollar store Kanye west has broken that woman 😒 what a shame

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jsmiley123•

it happens. for every rose and karine that finally leave and say fuck it. there are unfortunately a hundred more that stay in the hell for too long.

this angers me personally too, because my sister is one of those. she absolutely totally changed as a person, is constantly high strung and stressed because of him, and yet still defends the guy to the death. it's pathetic actually. she makes way more money than him too and he is short and ugly like pole jason staehle. it's pathetic and illogical.

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vegkittie•

If it's one thing I actually agree with Bilal about, is that Shaeeda is naive. I don't believe she's formed the tenacity to recognize and leave a narcissist in a relationship. Most women know and would run. But she's still there. I think it will take a few years but I hope she'll leave. Her mental health will not last. I hope they don't bring a new child into this.

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shrimpsammie•

Power and control. But she needs that baby before 40…….nothing else matters.

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It’s really scary to think that she actually wants to have a baby with that man!! That poor child would grow up around such toxic, abusive behavior…

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Branch-Much•

She could leave and find someone better to father her child tomorrow. She’s beautiful and will have no shortage of options.

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Exactly! She also seems like a strong individual who knows what she wants, and it’s sad to see how Bilal is trying to break her down and constantly gaslighting her.

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antimuffinleague•

Why did she marry this fool? It hurts to see her so broken and scared looking? But she chose this, so I don't want to feel bad... but I still do.

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Can anyone understand what his response was?

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SpringtrtrOPI’m vegan but I want your freaking meat•

It’s either “No, obviously.” or “No, let me see.”

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Artdecometals•

Right but then later he berates her to everyone for how dirty her fingers got

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London21A•

I heard “you always say that”

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SpringtrtrOPI’m vegan but I want your freaking meat•

The only scenario I would ask my husband “this isn’t my fault, right?” is if I had a blowup with a third person and I want to know: “Am I The Asshole?” Lol

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OhMustWeArgue•

He probably said something condescending.

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SpringtrtrOPI’m vegan but I want your freaking meat•

Only when the cameras stop rolling. He won’t let her live this down, when it’s just them. Her face in this clip says it all.

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humanbyassociation•

WTF your fault? who gives a shit, clean it up and move the fuck on wit your life. These people are weird

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Artdecometals•

She's asking how many hours of lecture she will receive about it for the next 15 years

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LeoMarkus123Use my bathroom, take my wife!•

Well, as we've all said..

The moment you have to put a clause in a prenup to be breeded before 40 - you probably shouldn't be married.

But she made the choice to marry him, whatever happens is equally her fault and no one should feel bad for her. He showed her exactly the kinda guy he is. She had a good life in Trini, she could've went home. But you know how it is...

Sunk Cost Fallacy.

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charpaw05•

I’m tired of everyone feeling bad for her. She’s a grown woman. Who even called us racist for attempting to point out, what a condescending ass, he truly is. 🙄😒 can’t believe we have to endure more of them on HEA

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thanks4distraction•

I am guessing like everyone else, she did not want a third broken engagement, and starting all over to meet someone new, with her clock ticking.

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jsmiley123•

wow... damn.

also, very observant OP, i hadn't noticed that.

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SpringtrtrOPI’m vegan but I want your freaking meat•

It’s from the First Look: Tell All part2. When Shaun calls a break after the John-Jibarkles feud.

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No-Ferret-3421•

Wait how do you guys know she was actually talking about spilling food on her? It could have been a totally different situation and context and convo they were having WHILE she spilled food on herself. TLC is known for editing heavily too for dramatic effect. I don’t see how we draw the conclusion here that this was a cause and causation scenario and not something coincidental and random.

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It's not TLC it's OP of this post imagining things that never happened. She didn't spill food on herself and she wasn't talking about anything to do with eating food!

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SpringtrtrOPI’m vegan but I want your freaking meat•

Because on my giant HD screen I saw white food on her navy blue lap. Tonight at part2, it’s the first break Shaun gives, to cool Jibarkles down.

Edit: I’ve just seen your WHILE in capitals. When you spill white food on your dark dress, do you casually continue to chitchat without a care? Especially if you’re at the backstage of a filming, soon to be broadcast on national tv?

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No-Ferret-3421•

You didn’t see her actually spilling food. The scene only shows her holding food on her lap and some already spilled on it. And Bilal trying to help her clean it up. I feel like this is a massive reach honestly.

Yes some people are capable of doing two things at once? Spilled food, okay, also having a conversation at the same time? Fine. Unless we have a longer clip with a beginning part before anyone spills any food, I don’t see a story here.

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SpringtrtrOPI’m vegan but I want your freaking meat•

I’m pretty sure it’s about the spill and you’re pretty sure it’s unrelated. We have no way of knowing so let’s just agree to disagree ☮️💜

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No-Ferret-3421•

But that’s exactly the point. We have no way of knowing. I’m not sure it’s not about the spilling. I’m just sure we don’t know enough to be sure and draw conclusions and reflect it back on their relationship we see through a heavily edited tv show. That’s all.

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Dude 🤡

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Ok-Revenue-4241•

He would drive me to putting a knife under my pillow. Just waiting for him to say that one thing that pushes me over the edge. As soon as she has a baby, I hope she leaves his sorry ass. Then he can take another 7 years so he can heal from his pain. Fuck him

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Ariane5555•

She. Likes it.

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Artdecometals•

I mean I know plenty people with a "submissive" kink and I'm not picking up that this is her kink. Like, at all.

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Ariane5555•

She is there so she likes it. Pure logic.

Also, she likes to complain but she is still there. I know the type very well

She is absolutely a doormat and likes to prove her 'miss perfect' self to her Mann when he doesn't deserve one bit

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samethystt•

This is some of the most vile abuse apologist bullshit I've seen in a while

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Ariane5555•

She is responsible and she chose this what are u talking about things just happen to her and she as a 40 year old has no say in things?

boo hoo

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JannaNYC•

Stop with the "abuse" nonsense. She's not a child. She's not being abused. She has every opportunity to leave. She chooses to stay. She chooses that man.

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ItaDapiza•

This is sad.

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Sea_War_3437•

Omg I missed that. My heart breaks for her.

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EnoughPicture•

It’s a mistake girl, just like marrying him was🤦🏾‍♀️

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Here_4_drama•

So sad

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caliana0818•

I think she was referring to everyone coming at Bilal

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ionfollowhoes•

This woman a buffoon

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