I think the most unhealthy thing for a potential relationship is someone that is a sex worker shaming someone that doesn’t want to date them tells the person they are insecure. When in reality, dating a sex worker is an instant no for most people.
Posted Aug 26, 2022, 5:31 AM UTC
It’s funny because it’s probably the sex workers who’re insecure.
I’m sorry I don’t want to date someone who has a job where every work day there’s a risk of them developing an std that could go to me.
i think its more just your ok with dating someone in the feald ok your not ok it comes down to how you view exclusively and thats just it
There are videos of pornstars shaming men for not dating them because they are insecure but in the same video a pornstar says they won’t date another pornstar, remind me and I will find the video tomorrow
I’d say it depends if they initially wanted an open relationship or not. There are pornstars who are married or not and they keep making videos on having sex with other people.
There’s a difference between intimacy, and sex. Orgasms aren’t connected to an emotional response, so it’s possible. Open relationships, or the other person knowing what kind of work they do can work for some and doesn’t work for others.
If you wouldn’t date someone that is a sex worker or is, then that’s fine too.
Unless I’m completely missing the point of your post.
I agree but monogamous people won’t want to date a sex worker and (some? A lot? Most? Idk I don’t know any in person) sex workers wont like to be told to stop working and lose their income
Okay I guess the question is: are you monogamous because you're insecure?
Because yes monogamous people would find a sex worker as appealing as a hot dog to a vegetarian but is that vegetarian a vegetarian because they think it's healthy or are they just nervous about liking a hot dog that goes against thier core values?
Don’t see how monogamy and insecurity are related
Everyone is going to have a different flavour of relationships. Some have open, some or monogamous, depending on the people in the relationship. However, I’m not sure whether monogamous people wouldn’t want to date a sex worker. Some people may be cool with it and be understanding, and others just wouldn’t go that route, which is okay.
I can also understand it can accumulatively get to you, if you’re working on yourself internally, especially from traumas you may have experience too. So, really it depends on preferences you have and others will differ from yours, which is also okay.
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It's not a 'potential relationship' if someone doesn't want to date them.
One of them may have been hoping for a relationship but that's happens all the time with or without the sex worker bit.