Need a good romance rec

Is there any romance besides Horimiya where there’s plot development but it’s not only just the girl moving it along. I just watched 3D kanojo and the pet girl of sakurasou and both the male mcs are to holier than thou and to afraid to acknowledge females existence for instance in the pet girl one home boy won’t even call her by her first name he’s a coward I get the ending and everything but it’s typical romance movement when the mc is like this lowkey just want something where the male and female can acknowledge real life feelings with real plot advancement