Any way to keep discord from labeling things as 'conversations'

I started getting vibration notifications on discord (phone) a couple of weeks ago and it is infuriating when it keeps happening after I have turned off every single vibration notification in the settings. I do not want discord to send me any fuckings vibration notifications.

I think I finally figured it out, it has put some chats as 'conversations' without my permission, and it overrides my settings to use SMS settings or something, how do I keep it from overriding the settings I have put in?