Anyone else have an SO (f) that is so negative about literally everything? Maybe this should be in the Dead Bedroom sub but I’m(m) so overwhelmed by the negativity. I need an escape from this. Not yoga breathing nor alcohol is getting me to a good place.
Posted Oct 5, 2022, 4:59 AM UTC
My MM’s wife is a narcissist, and he can’t do anything right. I once overheard a phone call between them and she is SCARY 😬 He has told me many times he loves how easy and cheerful I am. I also can’t have personal friends in my life who are negative. Drains me !
Those that spend their time looking for faults in others usually spend scant time working on their own faults.
The less you respond to negative people the more peaceful your life becomes.
(I have to constantly remind myself of these two statements)
My SO (f) is super negative and controlling which I (m)didn’t notice until it took a pretty big upswing over the past 5 years. I’ve been a lurker on here and a couple of dating sites for a long while and just met my first pAP for some drinks this past weekend. Smiling, happy, enthusiastic, honest and sex positive are words to describe pAP. I have my fingers crossed we can start something.
Good luck!🍀
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YES... He is negative Nancy... Debbie Downer... Asks me often why am I so giggly and happy...
Someone literally told me once that I laugh and smile too much and it annoyed her. Of course that didn't last very long. Joysuckers have no place in my life!
Gosh yes and it's exhausting. Besides the terrible sex life, his constant complaining, negativety and judgmental attitude has completely turned me off. As he gets older it just gets worse. I no longer listen to half of what he says. I focus on my peace of mind and happiness.
Are we married to the same guy? Ugh
I think it's my frustration coming out. He really is a wonderful man, but dammit, I wish he would just stop sometimes. I know I have my unattractive qualities as we all do, but I just can't listen to that, it sucks the life out of me.
I try not to bash on my wife, but yes. Apart from the dead bedroom, my wife's constant negativity makes her difficult to be with. I saw a skit by Bill Burr that talked about his mom and dad's relationship. I was dying with laughter, my wife was not amused.
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This reminds me of a short clip of Kevin heart saying his brother is King Negative. It’s easy to laugh at his commentary about it but it’s so annoying to deal with such a person in real life !