Bindering for a guy who hates bras?
Hey guys! Another late hatchling here!
My (39) egg has been cracking for the past couple of months and I’m now considering my options for binding.
I’ve always hated wearing a bra. Way back in the day I used to wear sports bras (through about 17), followed by camis with built in bras (~23), followed by actual bras with underwire (~33) when I was presenting at my most femme. After chest feeding a couple of kids I switched to bralettes/nursing bras as needed - and since March 2020 have probably only worn a bralette two dozen times.
Then my egg started to crack!
I think being more aware of my body and anxieties and understanding my dysphoria for what it is has been a part of me even realizing I might be trans, and being able to tolerate wearing a real bra all those years was because I was so disconnected from myself. Now wearing one feels way more uncomfortable/dysphoric than going free and I’ve been doing that even in public (with select clothing and strategically-draped long hair) most of the time. But it would be nice to try out having a flat chest :)
My chest is down to a B/C so maybe this will factor into people’s suggestions?
Anyway, this was my first post, so thanks for reading!
Posted Nov 3, 2022, 11:30 PM UTC