My (23m) girlfriend (19f) wants space and I’m really worried about the future of the relationship
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Posted Nov 4, 2022, 1:24 AM UTC · edited
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I think she just needs a little time to herself, man. It’s not really normal to spend every waking second with another person, especially if you’re an independent and/or introverted person. She just needs to recharge her battery.
“Needing some space” is NOT a code for “I don’t like you anymore.”
It literally just means she wants some downtime to zone out, read, write, do her nails, take a shit, watch Netflix, catch up on work, whatever.
If you freak out about her wanting to be alone after nearly three weeks of nonstop togetherness, you are the one who will be mucking up this relationship.
So relax. Go enjoy a few days to yourself too!
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She not into u sexually
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I've been through this situation before. What I can tell you is just give them space, don't beg or plead them. Be secure about yourself, sometimes we panick and do shit that pushes the other person more away.