Would’ve blocked when he threatened to end things for not going to the hotel. Someone speaking that way is not going to let up

I’m an escort and the John’s I see have to fill out a screening form on my website with all their real world info first. I meet plenty of people at hotels for the first time without issue, but I am able to firstly run a background check.

John’s get this bad reputation, but they aren’t bad people, they are normal people like everyone else. Like Your dad’s, grandpa’s, mentors, coaches, businessmen, blue collared men.

These type of guys though, like the one in this thread… these are just straight PREDATORS. They aren’t offering a public meet or screening and they are hoping you’re naïve or too afraid to ask for XYZ.

Yea indeed!! I told him there are different sites for what he’s looking for!

He’s not a SD, he’s a John! He wasn’t interested in getting to know you and didn’t care about your safety. He clearly didn’t have the funds & only had enough in his bank account to pay for just sex. Once you started indicating you weren’t like that, he bailed. You should be happy girl.. Thank you next! 😂

The messages between me and him would have stopped when he said “we can end here”. 

I would’ve texted back “gladly” and blocked him on everything. Absolutely not.

It’s nice when trash can take itself out 🗑🚮

Dear, you actually can report him on site for that : describe the reason (insisted on meeting first time in a hotel) and send these pictures as an evidence. I recently reported someone like that & administration reached me out asking for emails or screenshots where the guy proposed that, as they consider that dangerous. 

Who knows , maybe, this dude will pursue someone naive and she will end up in troubles…

Love this. Waste their time and money.

Can't be letting them have your real number like OP did though, gotta be untraceable.

We should all do this.

Maybe they would just start submitting screening to professionals and leave SA.

With those type, I tell them to book the room, send me a confirmation. Tell them to order champagne and I'm coming. Them when they start getting impatient, I text them a picture of me) woman in pijama. And tell them they must have misunderstood cause I'll never meet a SD for the first time in a hotel room. I'm not an escort, if I was one, I'd screen first and ask for 5* more. 

By that time they either block me or try to offer me 50-100 more like if it will change something.

report him.  “if you’re concerned about your safety let’s end here”   like bro wants a naive young women who doesn’t consider her own safety.   doesn’t scream predator at all

Sound like an escort client who's blacklisted or can't afford them anymore

Because (some) men naturally enjoy doing that, they like to feel in control of everything especially women because we are so weak right ? So "why would ,woman, decide for us, how dare she tries to control me ?! 😾" taking smallest thing like an attack so " if you don't do what i want, I'll cut contact with you!" Like they are the biggest lost of our lives..

Ohhh he is 🗑 i dont like when SD started with this bs

That's someone who doens't want to get screened by a professional, while literally buying sex.

Massive red flag, best case scenario he's just a married asshole, worst case...he's dangerous.

He's not an SD though, he's a shitty client barely pretending to be an SD.  These guys are useless.

The fact that people exist who even waste their time talking to guys like him only means that there are also some he had success with his strategy.

Another stain on planet earth. No shortage!

As a SW and SB I read this thinking it was from another sub like uhh John's don't meet us in public? And then I realized this was the SB forum 🤦‍♀️ can John's just respond to ads and get off SD sites already jfc

John behavior. 
He may likely be blacklisted one too because he shows aggressive behavior at a woman showing standards for safety.

He wanted an escort for the price of a watermelon.

Fuck him. Or rather don’t.

I wouldve responded with I don’t know if I feel comfortable with someone who appears to have multiple encounters with escorts. 😆 I don’t think a sugar relationship is for you if you can’t setup a date

Why do they test the boundaries so much??