What do I do?
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Posted Nov 4, 2022, 1:38 AM UTC
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It doesn’t really seem like a good relationship, you should always trust your partner trust and communication are the most important factors and of course commitment but it doesn’t seem like he has any of those. I struggle with bad anxiety and depression but everything he says just still seems a bit off
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I agree but I don’t know if it’s just me being anxious thank you. I don’t have many people to ask that’s not favorable to one side or the other.
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Yea, I’m not sure how to go about this I personally haven’t had a lot of relationships but I have learned a lot about them, it may be a lot but take it slowly and think about what’s the best for YOU.
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This is my first one here in person. So I’m wasnt sure either I think with a majority of these comments I’ll start focusing on myself and doing what’s best on me.
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Okay great just let me know if anything else happens, if. Course if you want too.
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RUN
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Honestly it sounds like this person isn't seeing you as a partner but more of a crutch. Communicate that things need to change that he must at least be present and if not it's time to cut him loose.