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The first few dates should always be something where you have room and time to talk to each other and really get to know each other so you can decide if you're compatible and if you're still interested and have common interests. There's nothing wrong with dinner and drinks. Maybe take a walk, or have coffee/ tea instead. Work out together,  find something you're both interested in like a local show or class... good luck!

Arcade, amusement park, something fun so the both of you will have fun and possibly be laughing the whole time.

zoo! museum! those are fun second dates. something to look at and talk about so you can learn more through conversation!

Allow me to say: movie dates are kind of a wreck if it's the first or second date! All the other posts about talking and coffee are perfect, but I'll say that something to NOT do is a movie date on the first getting-to-know-you basis. You can't talk during movies and you both aren't really sure what you both like yet, I'd save movie dates for further down the line once the two of you are totally comfortable and feel a good vibe together 😁

Coffee

Dog park if y’all have pets 

That new food truck spot 

Arcade place 

Cinema with theme

Game spot if y’all into games 

Car wash together ( sounds weird but me and my wife loves it ) 

Browsing Costco

Bowling / top golf

Hotpot places / kbbq / interactive eating

Asian market 

To the mall , sounds cliche but it’s fun

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