Didn't know whether to post this to r/niceguys or here, but ladies and gentlemen, this is my ex.
reddit.com/gallery/zagj9dPosted Dec 2, 2022, 8:57 AM UTC
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Man. I just don't get why you didn't want to marry him.
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honestly, how can you turn your back on a tribal savage…..
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Sheesh. He's got one heck of a mouth on him and one heck of an anger issue!
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Get a restraining order and press charges for threatening domestic violence on you
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how dare you having standards!
job? what's next? helping around the house? helping you with the kids? paying the bills? buying food?
the line has to be drawn somewhere!
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What brought all this on anyway? You dared to have a life? Ambitions? Goals?
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Please be careful OP. File a police report so there is a paper trail of his abuse. Break off all contact with him.
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It amazes me how many men will claim they don’t trust women because of a breakup or a crush rejecting them, and many women don’t trust men because of being raped. Everyone gets rejected and goes through break-ups!
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Plus rape isn't the same as just getting dumped.
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Yes. Sorry, I should have been more clear. That’s what I meant. Rape is obviously a whole other level and unfortunately a legitimate reason for fear.
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How long were you with him and why? 🤨
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2ish years and because he made me believe he was the only person I could ever be with.
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I’ve been there. Mine was 4 years, 1 married. I’m so proud of you for getting out. Please take care of yourself and be safe, and please report him to the police.
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For someone into "loving the earth and meditation" he sure is angry.
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What are you going to name your 26 cats?
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One of them will surely be named Halloween Jack after that one David Bowie song.
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love it, you can name another ziggy.
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One of them will surely be named Halloween Jack after that one David Bowie song.
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If he was a REAL tribal savage, he wouldn’t be screeching on the internet, he’d be out scrounging for roots and berries.
Glad you’re free of this hot garbage, OP.
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Yeah you be careful going out and about with this guy lurking yikes
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"you pleb" -🤓
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“FAT LAZY CUNT”
charming. Very charming. I can see why you’re still with him.
….wait which way does time go again?
Silliness aside, I’m sorry he said that to you and I’m glad he’s your ex.
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Not the first time he threatened violence either.
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were you able to leave before he got violent with you?
Edit: autocorrect tryna get me
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LDR thank God.
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This unhinged nonsense sounds like my ex from 2012 sending me all-caps raeg on Skype, only my ex was much more stupid (but hey, this isn't a contest, an asshole ex is an asshole ex.). This guy needs a booby hatch, a padded cell and medication, he needs to chill.
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He seems nice
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He is A LITERAL TRIBAL SAVAGE why would you even leave this man??
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Post it on r/sadcringe as well OP. Dodged a bullet there.
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How old is he?
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Yikes .. he sounds unhinged. Pls be careful when you’re out alone , he gives off “ if I can’t have you, no one can” vibes. Apart from the obvious anger issues, does he think you’re his property & why is he so comfortable threatening you ?? He’s a walking red flag , should be institutionalized or be one some kind of watch list
His mother warned me about him countless times. She suspects he has NPD. He kind of did give 'you are my property' vibes when we were dating. I am SO glad I left him.
When his own mother warns you, you know there’s something wrong
FYI, be super careful. My daughter broke up with a guy that sounds a lot like this. He has been harassing her for a bit, but recently stepped it up even more. He's tried to call the cops on her (making up all kinds of crazy stuff), and she had to file for a protection order. Now he's trying to hurt me. He just called our landlord and claimed all kinds of nonsense, trying to get my husband and I kicked out. He even called the cops on us and we have 0 contact with him. Please be careful. These unhinged types can get really vindictive. Protect yourself first and foremost, even if you think it might be going a little overboard (like getting a protection order). It's better to have one and not need it, then not have one when you do.
I'm so sorry you and your family are going through that.
What is NPD?
Narcissistic Personality Disorder.
My ex had that, dumped me and owes me a ton of money. He leaves me alone however, since he owes me a ton of money.