We can live life less lonely? - how nice wouldn't that be? #loneliness #depression #suicide #trauma

Hi and welcome to a new community here on reddit. Right now I am the only member, (I hear the echoing of the abandoned heart beating from my chest) so hopefully someone else will join? (and hopefully soon) ;)

I would like very much to create a place where you can come when you feel lonely (too lonely) and you don't know where to turn.

I am not selling anything, but my children told me about reddit to be a nice and friendly place to start a community, so here I am. Life can be very simple if we let it.

I look around this world and I see too much loneliness. In truth: we are everyone; alone.

We are born alone and we die alone, we all know this...but being "alone" and being "lonely" is not the same thing....we all know that, right?

We can feel it.

Yeah.

It can be nice and perfectly fine to be alone...but when we after a while start feeling lonely, and even lonelier - our mind: our state of mind, it changes.

Many of us lack the tools to draw force and energy from that feeling of loneliness and it grows into a deeper feeling, similar to that of abandonment, and this is the phase on that interior journey that some of you are on, where I'd like you to find this space.

Breath, exist and begin a new journey right here, right now: a journey inwards, towards your inner true being, a journey where YOU are your own guide, guru & devotee.

A journey that you are fully capable to make (even though it might not feel like it) and that will give you something that you might not yet have: true and genuine self-trust.

Self-trust is not self-confidence, in fact we don't need self-confidence.

Self-trust is not self-esteem, in fact we don't need self-esteem.

What we need though is self-trust...when we have gained access to our own self-trust, no one can then take it away from us.

Self-esteem and self-confidence is fed from outside of you, whilst self-trust comes from within, it is something you yourself have already withing, and that you can gain full access to, simply by living life.

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I am just putting down a few lines here rather spontaneously, so you will have something if and when you come here.

Please know that you can become your own best friend, your own best lover and your own best parent . We really do not "need" anyone else and it can actually be rather useless to "be with someone else" before we have "been with our true self". And this is because we will be able to connect with a partner or a spouse or another person and being only once we have found a true and direct connection with our self.

This means that if we stay in a relation with someone that also "hasn't yet met him/her/themselves/etc", no one in that relationship is really connecting with the other.

Most people have these types of relationships, due to the misconception about loneliness and a misunderstanding of how "connection" really functions.

If you are alone and feeling lonely, I'd like for you to know and draw wisdom from knowing that being in such a relationship with another individual and being is 100% a waste of your precious time.

I don't care if you are 14 years old, 44 years old, or 84 years old - you do NOT want to invest in such a relationship. Especially when you instead have all the possibility to put all that time-investment within establishing a deep connection with your self.

You are more than gold worth because you have an intrinsic value for just being and existing, "just being and existing", as if it was nothing...a thing to take for granted...

It is not.

Today, here & now, you begin your journey inwards, towards YOUR self. It is going to be fun and teachable and very exciting and SUPER interesting.

You have only one thing to focus upon: to come with an open mind...and that's not always that easy.

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I have to go cook for my family now, tonight we'll eat: Chili con carne (without the meat ;)) spicy hot food, served on simple white plates, in a house on the Italian country side. Tomorrow I will take everyone with me, dogs included, and go pick down all the black olives. It high time, they are very ripe!

As you see - nothing fancy here - just genuine feelings and food and people.

I do hope you will come back soon and why not write me something here, about you, or whatever you want. I think I have to set up rules or something but I will figure that part out as we go along adn just hope not too many haters will find their way here, but even so, they are humans too and most probably: VERY lonely.

We will have to see how this adventure unfolds and develops ;)

I find that to always be the best way...walking this path, living this process of life, as it presents itself, while it presents itself...with very few or no expectations and prefixed end results.

Just being glad and fulfilled by having lived another day.

Take care of your SELF/CiwiKing