Question on what to do when people don't rotate post-laning phase

I'm an ADC (which I realize is my first mistake) and when I play high gold-plat elo people usually rotate post-laning phase with macro in mind. But when I play with some of my newer friends, we get queued with iron and bronze players, and the most common theme we find is that we run into the Junglers and Mid Laners who don't understand rotations and sharing farm. Junglers will get mad if you take their farm 30-40+ minutes into the game and go AFK saying they can't farm and there's no where to get farm cus we're taking it. Or Mid Laners who refuse to rotate. Then me as a weak, feeble ADC have to sidelane solo and get killed instantly by anyone on their team. Unless I get fed early, I feel like this is my fate more often than not when when we get queued up with newer players.