Best resources for single moms in Salem/Keizer

I was recently and very unexpectedly laid off around Thanksgiving and I’m a single mom to three kids and go to school full time. I usually work around 60 hours a week but all that is put on pause until the business I work for reopens. Unfortunately the paychecks that will be impacted are right before the holidays. Their father hasn’t seen them in three years now and hasn’t paid me anything in child support in months. Before I was laid off I made too much to qualify for food stamps or medical but I now qualify and will thankfully get all of that for a little while. I qualify for unemployment but it isn’t close to my normal income and frankly now I’m terrified of the holidays. I don’t have the credit for a loan without a co-signer and I’m actually behind on a loan here (thankfully my lender has been understanding and I have a great rep at r/borrow because there are no local lenders in town I can get a loan with). I’ve talked to arches, the Salvation Army, and a couple of churches but a lot of those places are out of funding right now or require a shut off or eviction notice to qualify for help, and even then it isn’t much that they help with. Are there any local resources you guys can recommend or grants I can apply for? Thanks for your time today. Happy holidays.

Posted Dec 8, 2022, 2:04 AM UTC

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djhazmatt503•

Here is a pdf of local food free neighborhood pantries

https://willamette.edu/offices/csl/doc/local-resources.pdf

Another list of different pantries

https://www.foodpantries.org/ci/or-salem

And a huge list of places to help with food and utilities

https://www.needhelppayingbills.com/html/marion_county_food_banks1.html

PGE has a discounted rate for low income and all you gotta do is call. I also know there are places that will help pay your power bill:

https://www.cityofsalem.net/community/household/financial-assistance-grants/utility-payment-assistance#:~:text=State%20Median%20Income.-,Who%20to%20Contact,a.m.%20to%205%3A00%20p.m.

Best wishes and good on you for asking for help, as there are many who can use this info but are above doing so. Hope things get better. What a terrible time to lose your job :/

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drivethruhellOP•

Totally on the food bank thing. My mom usually grabs a box from South Salem by the Fred Meyer. Thank you so much for all of the resources!

I didn’t know about the PGE rate! I have qualified for the low income discount from the government for my internet bill due to getting the Pell grant but I had no idea about electricity. I plan on applying for energy assistance asap (previously didn’t qualify) but we are on the easy pay program with PGE and that has helped us so far there. I will call them first thing tomorrow! Thank you! 🙌

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djhazmatt503•

No prob, hope things turn around for you!

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Challenge-Upstairs•

If you have Comcast for internet, they also have a heavily discounted plan which, depending on your situation, can be waived entirely, for low income and disabled families.

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marby723•

Not grant information but your kids school counselor should have resources specifically for the holidays. I know several families who are receiving things like food and clothes on a regular basis. This also includes holiday gifts for the kids. I know it's not monetary which is what you need, but might be helpful. ❤️ Best of luck!!!

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I'm in close to the same boat and can't get my kids gifts unless I cut into the grocery budget, and things are really rough. This is a great list of resources so thanks to the commenters!

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annaoceanus•

Send a wishlist for your kids and I am willing to help with a gift or two

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Omg that's so kind of you! Idk what to say 🥹

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Challenge-Upstairs•

Send one my way too. Santa doesn't have to be a physical person to be real. That's what community is for.

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You guys are amazing truly. I'm tearing up! Thank you!

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annaoceanus•

🎄❤️ Happy to help!

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Join your local buy nothing page, there will probably be a few people willing to help with Xmas

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PetuniaPicklePants•

Do you have an Amazon wishlist for toys for the kids? I’d be happy to get them some.

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drivethruhellOP•

https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/dl/invite/hU3kEwi?ref_=wl_share

I had something I put together last week but unfortunately I didn't qualify to post over at assistance so my post was deleted by moderators.

Thank you so much, I appreciate it and will definetly pay it forward.

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annaoceanus•

Got you a couple items. Merry Christmas 🎄

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PetuniaPicklePants•

For some reason, it doesn’t have a shipping address when I add to cart. Any clue what I did wrong?

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annaoceanus•

Free Fridge Salem has spots throughout the city where staples and ready meals are stocked. Check out @freefridgesalem on Instagram

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slinkysloop•

Family Building Blocks 💜 https://familybuildingblocks.org/parents/

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JazelleGazelle•

Family building blocks and family promise are local supports to at risk families. I know family promises mission is specifically to help families in poverty avoid or recover from houselessness. West Salem clinic can be a good place to check out for resources too. Sorry to hear your going through a rough time.

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drivethruhellOP•

I just wanted to take a second to thank a few users for their help. It's been a busy weekend for me because I picked up some side work but I did recieve a bunch of amazon packages, I'm pretty sure you guys covered that entire wishlist. I can't tell you how thankful I am, I'm excited that I get the opportunity to hide presents for my kids this year despite the struggles. Someone brought food and household supplies and another user treated my family to a couple of pizzas for dinner this weekend. I never expected the outpouring of support but I appreciate it so much. u/annaoceanus , u/fadingtot , u/PetuniaPicklePants , u/chris_thrush , u/ishouldtrythat — sorry if I missed anyone but thank you so incredibly much.

And thank you to everyone who commented with a resource, I unfortunately haven't had a ton of luck in that department because things aren't as bad as an eviction notice or shut off notice quite yet but I think it'll help people who are struggling in the Salem area in the future. Look for me in a few months back here, I'm gonna find a way to pay it forward back to this amazing community. Thank you for everything you guys were able to do, again!

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