Your life is worth living.
Posted Dec 31, 2022, 1:16 PM UTC
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Lol my mom told me she wishes she'd flushed me the other day. Meeting my father was the worst thing that ever happened to her. Fuck that man. I live for me and I will die when I want.
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Thanks, I kind of needed this.
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That really is the biggest lie that we know is a lie inside of us that tears us apart, real soul murder... that we are unloved, unlovable, unwanted and unwantable... that we are the bad object, that we are poison, weird, a burden, a source of problems.
It is a lie, it is a wrong (and invalid!) belief that was put in there against our will and out of control.
Our healing is going deep into the inferno and seeing that as the lie it is, then we will have integrity.
I hope a good 2023 for everyone!
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It’s far worse to understand that you are deserving of love, and to still receive absolutely none in spite of that.
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I listened to something so beautiful yesterday as I was running back home from a ... run!
About the feeling of love, it was said (I am paraphrasing so hard they could call it metaphrasing): "What we are looking for in the outside world when we say <We Are Looking For Love> is the key to the feeling of Love, which ultimately is a feeling that comes from the inside of us. In the presence of the loved one, the door to our heart is opened, and Love gushes forth from within us.
When we grieve, what we are grieving the most in the loss of the connection is this whole key to heart aspect of it, huge swathes of our emotional lives and learning and memories go away, the key is no longer there.
Ultimately, though, always looking out to the outside world for the key to something that is already within us, Love, we stray away from the biggest truth of all, is that we are already all made of Love."
You are deserving of Love!!!! You are full of it too!
Maybe not from the sources you are hoping from, and maybe not from the direction you are looking at.
In my life I've been collecting insights about love, here are my first 3 ones! Those are things that will always be true (to me at least), and I refer back to them when I don't feel love or I feel loveless.
1- You only have control on the Love you give, not on the Love you get. (So better spend your energy first finding ways to give out Love, everyone loves getting Love of the right kind.
2- You have been given Love in all kinds of ways in the past, and it is pretty much a given that such chances will come back in the future.
3- I used to think "You can give an infinity amount of Love" but now that I am older, I think: "Love is Time." If I want to love myself more, I have to spend time with me/for me. And giving Love to others is using my limited lifetime on them.
Where do you want/need your love to come from, and in what form?
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Oh yeah sure family misses me for sure, at least once a year on Christmas because "we are your family" and then forget about me for the rest of the year. Ah and gay couples are not allowed on Christmas only heteros.
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Not when ur parents r just toxic ass holes and the rest of ur extended family has completely ostracized you.
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i promise chosen family > blood family
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Yet the chosen family still seems unobtainable for me.
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Right like I have no close connections at all lmao
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i also have none but that’s what my mom tells me 💀
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It's been two months since I attempted suicide. Still fighting
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A friend of mine killed herself 11 years ago, and one of the reasons I keep going is to keep her memory alive. I'll never forget and I'll never not miss her.
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That's the thing I argue with all my family and say I'll just leave then and then later at some point they just wish I would come back
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ngl. i needed this
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It was deleted, what was it?
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the irony of the image not loading for me
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Thank you ❤❤❤
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thanks
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Thank you for sharing this. I’ve been having a hard week and this really hit home. ❤️
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tell her this, without guilt tripping. just let her see it and feel it