2manyteacups

i’m newly into my third trimester (yay!!) and am planning my second home birth (need to order my birth kit soon actually) but my MIL said a while ago that she wanted to visit around a week before my estimated due date. she would be traveling across the country and staying with us. the only available room we have is my sons bedroom (he’s going to be two and a half and i’m REALLY trying to be consistent with getting him to sleep in his own bed before the new baby comes) and if she comes and stays she will have to sleep in his bed and he will have to cosleep with us. as it is he starts the night in his own bed but after a few hours he wakes up and comes in to join us. he is also still nursing a

so, we have a two year old and are expecting a second in December! a couple months ago my MIL visited from across the country. she was with us for about a week and half (stressful, since she was literally home all the time and my husband went to work each day) and she is bad on her feet. i will say i am grateful she LOVES my son and will literally do anything for him. but one night when we went out to dinner (her last night here) we went to a niceish restaurant and while we were eating my 2 year old wanted to nurse. i told him now was not the time and he was fine with his mashed potatoes and a straw cup of cool water. my husband said “i know what thats like!” and my MIL nodded and i was like