Adde3333

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r/daddit•

It's my birthday today, and my wife hasn't said anything, not one thing. Instead my day started with petty arguments and a bad mood. It's not even that I'm one to celebrate at all, but even a small gesture would have been nice. We've been having a tough autumn, I'm overworked with a demanding job and I have to help with my wives studies that she can't really do herself, all on top of having a one year old with all the energy in the world. It's alot. And constantly I'm made to feel like I'm not doing enough. I know she's having a tough time too. I know it's probably a phase and that we'll get through it eventually, but today I'm feeling just a little extra shitty

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r/daddit•

As the title says my dad passed this morning, quietly in his sleep it seems. He wasn't very old, only 59, but he had health issues that I suppose in some way had made me prepare mentally for this day.

We had a rocky relationship the last decade, he had issues with alcoholism that stunted our relationship when I was in my late teens. For the last few years though things were getting better and when he became a grandpa 7 months ago i could tell he was happier than he'd been in a long time.

I just feel so empty now. I'm so sad that he won't get to see my girl grow, that my girl will grow up without a grandpa. I'm so sad we never got to properly mend our relationship. There's so many more thi

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r/trailrunning•

Does anybody have any tips on lower stack flexible trail running shoes with a secure fit? My favorite road shoes for longer runs is the saucony kinvara 11 because of how flexible it is and it allows my foot to strike more naturally while still being fairly cushioned, so something with a similar feel would be optimal. I've been eyeing some Salomon offerings like the sense 4 pro and ultra pro, what would you guys suggest?

I'm in an area where there's a lot of roots on the trails and they can be pretty wet if that helps narrow it down.

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r/FujifilmX•

I've been doing alot of research recently into what camera i want to get as my first mirrorless and I've basically landed at the choice between the fuji xt3, xt30, and xs10. The xs10 and xt3 are about the same price right now with the 18-55mm kit lens and the xt30 is about 200$ cheaper with the same lens. I want to do mostly photography and maybe a little bit of videography. I'm mostly interested in street photography, landscape photography, general travel shooting and also low light in those situations, for example doing night time city photography, photographing aurora when I'm out hiking etc.

So my question is which of these would be the best pick?

The xs10 has the ibis which is nice,

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As the title suggests I want to start moving towards working in networking or IT in general. For the last 4 years I've been working as a chef and even though I enjoy it the financial- and career development isn't really what I would want, especially since me and my gf want to have children soon.

So what should my first steps be going towards a career in networking? I would like to continue working full time while I study because we still have house to pay for and if she goes on maternal leave she doesn't get full salary either.

I have basically zero knowledge besides interest and a couple of basic programming courses in python from college like 6 years ago. Is a degree something you nee

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r/running•

Hi! Just started running a few weeks ago, and I want to try a marathon in may next year, currently I can run a 10k pretty consistently at around the 55 minute mark, but I haven't tried any longer distances yet. Really enjoying my time running overall, it's the first time I'm actually enjoying working out.

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