Addicted2aa

u/Addicted2aa


r/Swingers•

My gf and I, both poly so experienced with the jealousy aspect, are thinking about exploring this side of non-monogamy. She has some experience with group sex and public play, while I have very little. There’s a club somewhat nearby, Electricity Social Club in Providence, that’s hosting a New Year’s Eve event and I suggested we try going to that as a way to get a feel for what the lifestyle might offer. It feels like having a festive atmosphere would be help with any nerves and tension as we’re both kinda introverted. Just wondering if there’s anything We’re not considering due to ignorance or if this really is a good first step.

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r/ADHD•

I have a problem with losing my focus while waiting for a task I'm not in control of to complete. Like many, when I do focus I find myself completely absorbed and able to work for hours without issue. However if something interrupts me or there is nothing to focus on for a few minutes I completely lose focus.

I'm a software test engineer so most of my work is spent writing test that run on their own. While writing and designing tests I'm good at staying focused, but if I have to run them the couple minute wait for results breaks up my focus and being able to return to work is hard and gets harder and harder as the day goes on. I seem to feel like I have to fill that gap in time with doi

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r/rpg•

I'm planning on running a game for my family over the holidays. They completely lack the normal nerd framework of things like fantasy novels, sci-fi tv, or super hero comics. They are for lack of a better word, completely square. As such I don't really feel like I should start with the classics D&D as there is no built in buy in there. Was wondering if anyone had any suggestions on what to run for people with a lack of traditional nerd basis.

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