Alternative_Engine97

about what elo on chesscom blitz is needed to be competitive with them? what time control do they usually play?

Does a woman having a mirror pic of herself in a webcam on a laptop always mean the profile is spam / a fake profile? I see this a lot and wonder why the hell this is so common

If you are in remission for over a year and have no uc symptoms, how often does your doctor recommend colonscopies?

The opponent did an opening trap on me that resulted in me losing a rook.
He prematurely said good game in chat.
I then beat him anyway because he's that bad at chess (he's the same rating (1600ish chess.com) as me but clearly is relying on traps to get rating points, etc).
I then chatted at him a couple messages about how bad he was, how much he sucked, etc.
Does anyone think that prematurely saying GG, and then preceding to lose the game is actually more unsportsmanlike than what I did? This behavior is infuriating to me.

I work a day job as a .net / C# dev, and I'm looking for well paying part time / side work utilizing my current skillset. Do you work a part time software engineering gig on the side? what technology do you use? do you think the best way to find a gig is indeed.com, and filter 'remote, part time c#'? It looks like these gigs are better than upwork / fiver, etc. is there any other site that is good to find work like this?

anybody know if you can take 45 mg rinvoq for over 2-3 months in the usa (thru insurance)? it seems like 30 mg cannot control my symptoms

Rinvoq has worked very well for me. Soon I’ll be switching to 30mg as the maintenance dose. For those of you on this medication, what is you / your doctor’s plan for the long term? Does your doctor expect to keep you on 15mg forever or eventually will you completely stop rinvoq?

I get a decent amount of dates from OLD and I think if i keep it up, I will one day find a partner. Are you anxious about never finding someone? What’s your age and gender? Do you care that much if you don’t find someone at this point?

I was talking to a much older friend who said that online dating is basically a waste of time because it's so difficult for men. She said that if me and my friends really want a relationship, we need to get out and meet people.

I think it's pretty much the same. Like the reasons that it is hard to find a relationship online are pretty much the same reasons that that it is hard to find a relationship in person. And if you meet someone in person, you're always competing with all the people she could meet online, etc.

This is mainly in reference to the difficulties of men seeking women for LTR, but women can weigh in too about their struggles if they want

They do zero research into the field and want to get into I.T. because they heard there's a lot of money in it, meanwhile they tell me that they think that programming is hard and boring and want to get into help desk or desktop support, not realizing that these roles often pay less than whatever they're currently making at their current job. Even development has taken a big hit recently in terms of job openings, especially at the entry level. What do you tell friends and family that really have no idea what I.T. even is but want to get into it for the money / perceived job stability? I don't want to be rude, but I don't want to have to be like what are you currently making, because a lot of

it's over bros. and he was getting pretty funny.

I live in a suburb of NYC. I set my radius within the suburbs and have gotten a few dates, but pretty quickly swipe through all the women. My area doesn't have a lot of apartments, so most young people move to Manhattan / Brooklyn / Queens. Have you tried moving to a city to meet young women? Did it work? at this rate, it seems like if i only date locally i'll never find someone.