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2 weeks ago my husband left me, told me he cheated on me, is a pathological liar, and wanted a divorce in 1 week... today I’ve thought of him, of us, and yet haven’t cried. The night is still going but for now I’m proud of myself! Yet I can’t tell people this cuz I’m so tired of people telling me “you’ll find someone better” or “it’ll get better” or “you don’t need him!”

Recently in my city an apartment complex burnt down and the next day there were 3 dogs that went missing from the fire (they have not concluded that they perished in the fire. The fire dept is giving hope they ran away) this gave me a wake up call that even though we live in a home and my doggies are indoor I really should have a collar on them JUST IN CASE... however my schnauzer, who already had skin issue for being pure white, is scratching at it and getting red underneath :( it’s not tight, I can put 2 of my fat fingers between, and it’s not loose, it doesn’t spin around constantly. I think she’s just not used it... any tips? It’s cotton too and I wash it with sensitive soap. Thank you!

Past through Starbucks drive thru this morning and when we got to the window the girl said “hi so the person in front of you paid for yalls drink.” (We are in Texas. We say y’all) We were surprised and said “wow! What?” She then explained how he was actually the 10th person in a row to do that since the morning began. So... we were the 11th and part of me hopes that it continues till the morning rush ends. It made me happy inside and just that lil glimpse of hope that there is still good people out there these days! Pay the kindness forward today! You’ll feel great!

Live in Shavano Park and around 7:40 PM today there was music that sounded like between icee cream truck and alarm music and then a male voice. Anyone else?

Posted this week how I keep getting algae and with help from very helpful redditors, we determined it was my light being left on too long. Makes sense. So I looked for timers and I found one for my 20 long tank but my 5 gallon tank light is not compatible with a timer. So now I’m on the search for a light that fits a 5 gallon tank that is ALSO compatible with a timer. The plants are not high light at all so looking for relatively inexpensive light. Thanks you!

Hello! So I made sure I was able to post this with the mods. My mom has been diagnosed with Mycropoly Angitis. It’s a anti- inflammatory that is super rare and those whom it does affect are in their 70-80s... my mom is 45. The doctors in my city and surrounding cities have read about it but not actually treated someone this young. So the way they are treating it among doctors here is as cancer. Crazy cells acting up, chemo. Carbs and sugar worsen her inflammation so none of that and that’s where I come to ask for advice. I currently came to live with my mom, with my husband, to help. She cooks some days and I cook other days. Everything we cook has to be in the paleo or Keto diet. Which I lo