I had the in-laws from hell. Almost literally- they took the devil’s strategy of claiming virtue whilst undermining me to everyone they could.
They’re dead now, so I’m finally processing thoughts and emotions that I’ve shoved down for decades. Apologies, random thought stream ahead. I am still so angry at them for creating barriers where there could have been good relationships.
My family and my husband’s ran relationships with very different priorities. We (my family) came to this country two generations ago out of necessity, running from war. We lost so much that the focus was “Family is everything “. We were loved, supported, forgiven, cherished, and we knew it. From the age of 15 I w






