BluZen

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r/polyamory•

Fifth together and first at the house my boyfriend just bought in the UK, having moved from the US to be closer to the two of us here. (We also applied to move the other way, but he beat us to it, so here we are. It's so nice not having to fly across the ocean all the time anymore to be together!)

Anyway, hope you're all having a wonderful Christmas! 😊

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r/PolyFidelity•

One of my boyfriends is almost the same age and height as my brother, and especially when I'm spending time around my brother, I seem to mix up their names all the time when talking to people. It annoys him but I can't help it 😅

My other boyfriend has no close match with any of my close family, and I always get his name right despite him being the newer partner.

Anyway, just wondered how common this is? 😄

Or maybe getting your partners' own names mixed up? (We're all male and people tell us we're super-similar, but I think that's quite a superficial assessment, and we rarely mix up each other's names.)

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r/PolyFidelity•

3.5 years since my husband and I met the guy who would turn our lives upside down and make us feel like the luckiest guys in the world. 🥰

Things are going great. Still spending a whole month together about 4x a year (sometimes longer; longest so far almost 2 months), adding up to like 15 months so far. Met most of each other's immediate family, colleagues and friends in person. Enjoyed a big family vacation together, road trips, Las Vegas, conventions, international travel. Celebrated three Christmases together. Looking to meet the final close family members in person this coming winter, then probably move in together around year 4 or 5. 😊

We didn't have a lot of one-on-one time until rece

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r/polyamory•

3.5 years since my husband and I met the guy who would turn our lives upside down and make us feel like the luckiest guys in the world. 🥰

Things are going great. Still spending a whole month together about 4x a year (sometimes longer; longest so far almost 2 months), adding up to like 15 months so far. Met most of each other's immediate family, colleagues and friends in person. Enjoyed a big family vacation together, road trips, Las Vegas, conventions, international travel. Celebrated three Christmases together. Looking to meet the final close family members in person this coming winter, then probably move in together around year 4 or 5. 😊

We didn't have a lot of one-on-one time until rece

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r/MAOIs•

I was reluctant to try this because my husband had previously told me it tastes truly awful, but I guess he must be very sensitive or something, because I just took 10 mg of pure tranylcypromine powder under my tongue twice this afternoon, leaving it for at least half an hour without swallowing to absorb as much sublingually as possible, and found the taste quite mild and not altogether unpleasant.

It's hard to characterise, but for comparison, selegiline tastes far worse.

The flavour lessened over time and the mild stimulant effect was apparent within 20 minutes (piloerection of the scalp is a telltale sign for me), so I do believe it gets absorbed this way, at least to some extent.

I pl

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r/USCIS•

Hello, I'm a non-US citizen from the Netherlands (a VWP country) in a long-term polyamorous relationship with two Americans, one of whom is my legal spouse and lives with me in Scotland (UK), while the other lives in the US. My husband and I visit our boyfriend (who is more tied down with a full-time federal-government job) about 4 times a year for about a month at a time, with no plans to move (back) across the ocean.

The last time my husband and I crossed the border, we were told I'm doing quite a bit of travelling under the VWP, and given our situation, the officer recommended I apply for a B1/B2 visa.

So I've applied and my interview is in a few weeks.

Now, I know an I-134 is generall

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