CodenameVillain

Hi, I think im asking advice, I may be half venting... but every time my parents watch my kid, the following night and next day are always a nightmare. It varies but there's always a mixture of a diaper rash from hell, bad sleep patterns (kid waking up at 1am ready to go and being fussy, unable to go back down no matter how hard mom and I try), tummy aches, or just poor behavior.

My mother and my relationship can also be... difficult. We dont have the best communication and fight at the drop of a dime. Has anyone had similar experiences, and if so how did you handle it? I want to let him spend time with them because he adores them, but the day after and drama associated is very taxing on m