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Do you guys experience resentment towards others, eg. your parents/family, partner etc. for not providing you your suggestive function and polr? And if so, what are some examples?
I realise a lot of the resentment that I have towards my parents and the way they have raised me stems from their lack of my suggestive function and polr function.
I like authentic chats, straight to the chase. There’s no need to be overly polite, I like authenticity. I’m also quite boring but I’m genuinely curious about people.
While I’m (23F) not socially inept, most of my adolescence was spent studying/working, and added to the fact that I’m an introverted, risk-averse, routine-following person, I’ve missed out on a lot of experiences, socialising, hobbies etc. So this makes it very difficult for me to connect with people over anything. In social settings, conversations with people die out super fast and I feel like I can’t contribute anything.
Do you guys have suggestions on things I could do, topics I could explore etc to help me find some common ground with my peers? Please feel free to throw out any ideas.
While I’m (23F) not socially inept, most of my adolescence was spent studying/working, and added to the fact that I’m an introverted, risk-averse, routine-following person, I’ve missed out on a lot of experiences, socialising, hobbies etc. So this makes it very difficult for me to connect with people over anything. In social settings, conversations with people die out super fast and I feel like I can’t contribute anything.
Do you guys have suggestions on things I could do, topics I could explore etc to help me find some common ground with my peers? Please feel free to throw out any ideas.
If someone (A) reposted my story, and I (B) am a private account, A’s followers can see my story. Will I be able to see from the viewers function which of A’s followers viewed my story?
Can hanging out or growing up with your mirror type help develop your activating and suggestive functions? Would such a person have be better with these functions than other people of their type?
How to let go of “what could have been?” in relationships? even though the person I’m interested doesn’t feel the same way about me that we could have really been good together if he had just gotten to know me better?
I understand this is prob a question for a relationship sub for example, but as an EII-Ne with strong Ne and Ni, it’s so difficult to let go of the idea of a great future with this person…
Any suggestions?
It would be really nice to interact with more people in my quadra… Just let me know. I’m EII btw.
Has anyone had a relationship (platonic or romantic) with a dual that was not compatible in the DCNH system? For example a Creative dual with a Normalising dual? How was the experience/attraction like?
To me, Beta NF’s aristocracy is very evident, perhaps valued Se heightens it. But how is Delta NF aristocracy like? Ime, delta NFs have a soft spot for underdogs, aren’t particularly reverent towards hierarchy achy and are interested in getting to know even the “undesirable” people of society, so I wonder how else it may manifest.
Why is the demonstrative function named as such? If I recall, the reason was something about it being the element we most display? If so, does that mean we mostly only display our ego functions in private/at close psychological distance?
I’m undecided on whether I am normalising or harmonising in the DCNH system. Are there clearer ways to tell?
If I were to get laser treatment for both PIE and PIH, for example, VBeam and Pico respectively, which should I do first? Do you guys have any views/experience on which order pigmentation should be treated?
