DatesForFun

no driving all over buttfuck egypt tomorrow and thursday to visit family for the birthday of their mythical genie!! instead, i get to lay on the couch and drink my fluids and REST

i hope i get sick next year too!!!

Is it the holidays or the cold weather? any other women experiencing a lot of attn suddenly from men they were friends with decades ago?

i’ve got about 4 - 6 of them in my DMs right now- old platonic friends mostly. I’m thinking “is he trying to date me now after all these years? ir is he just being friendly???”

No females from decades ago are reaching out to me so i assume Im right

Is it just the holidays?? Not sure how to handle this as i dont want to “lead them on” but like come on bro we have always been just friends

what are you hoping to accomplish with that declaration?

it happened to me again today at the mall - i was just walking along and this man said “im sorry not to bother you but i just wanted to let you know you’re absolutely gorgeous”.

(side note- i am not in fact gorgeous and not saying that to hurt feelings)

i felt awkward, laughed and said thanks. Then we both went out separate ways

What am i supposed to do in a situation like this? This one was good looking so i might have been interested but he didn’t offer his number or even ask my name so…. what am i supposed to do? Chase after him like a desperate thirsty woman??

just once a day and only one beep coming from the steer wheel area but no light indicating what it’s about

any ideas???

men, why do you say this?

i said “yes i’d love to”

• and then crickets. So now it’s on me to tell him when and where to get dinner? like what the fuck

ps this is not an online dating circumstance. i know him irl - i took him to a thing 2 weeks ago and have been waiting for him to ask me out. now, this 🙄

his cover pic is with his whole family, and he’s standing next to a blonde woman. all 3 kids are blonde as well.

(this is the guy i posted about yesterday who i met at a work conference with a wedding ring on his right hand. He had been hanging around me all week, intense eye contact, told me im hot, asked if im seeing anyone, told me hes divorced)

im so sick of married men lying

what does this mean? i’m in the wild and there’s a guy who’s been extra chummy to me. Does ring on right hand mean he’s married? he’s american

i had never considered this but tonight i got a tarot card reading by a psychic and the subject of a coworker i have a crush on came up. She told me he only wants sex. i said im good with that- i even tried to hook up with him before. Then she said he’s intimidated by me because he’s bad in bed after a long marriage and he’s immature sexually from only having been with his wife for so long.

i am not sure i believe anything she said- but is that a thing? that men who have been married a long time don’t have much experience? i wasn’t married a long time and have had dozens of partners both male and female so i’ve very skilled and uninhibited.

should i just forget about this guy?

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background: https://www.reddit.com/r/whatdoIdo/s/2Tl84NwkNH

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and not work for a month to “get his groove back”. he claims he’s “massively depressed” and hates his job. he works retail.

i suspect he will ask me for money again and i already told him no last time

for context, he was “rich” just a couple years ago on an inheritance he assured me would set him for life. well he blew thru it all in 2 years and is broke again. alcoholic and a drug addict i think.

been distancing myself sent he blew all that money but i also don’t want to upset him and cause him to unalive himself - or rob me.

what should i do?